What is Adult Breastfeeding?

What is Adult Breastfeeding?

Simply put, adult breastfeeding is when an adult consumes a woman’s breast milk. There are many reasons why this might happen, and one of the most common ones has to do with health reasons. Breast milk is, for the most part, completely sanitary, cannot spoil, is mostly hypoallergenic, full of nutrition and infection-fighting potential, packed with calories and good fats and proteins, and the list just goes on.


In fact, breast milk is so healthy and safe (provided the woman who nurses is healthy and disease free) that cancer patients have been given breast milk to help boost their immune system and help keep them healthy and to maintain their weight and nutrition during chemotherapy treatments.

What’s good for baby is good for any human being. In fact, some studies clearly indicate that any human being could thrive, not just survive but thrive, on a diet of pure breast milk from a healthy woman.

What is an Adult Nursing Relationship?

An adult nursing relationship is a physical, intimate relationship between two people, where one of the parties to the relationship nurses from a woman who either is or is not lactating. I tried doing some searches about adult nursing relationships and found that, though there are many searches on the subject, there aren’t a lot of resources or information. From what I was able to find, it seems clear to me that every adult nursing relationship is unique.


Adult Nursing Relationship With or Without Lactation (Relactation)

While some adult nursing relationships include adult breastfeeding, such as a man or a woman suckling and drinking breast milk from a lactating female, some adult nursing relationships are simply the physical act of suckling, without actual lactation. However, it seems with regular suckling or stimulation, many woman can begin lactating or lactating again (if the woman has already given birth and lactated once in her life, it’s called relactation).

Adult Nursing Relationships with Sexual Component

Some adult nursing relationships are one aspect of a sexual relationship between partners, husband and wife or committed lovers. This type of adult breastfeeding/ adult nursing relationship usually occurs after a child is born and the idea of breastfeeding or lactation becomes a part of every day reality for a couple. There are, however, some couples who enjoy adult breastfeeding and adult nursing relationships with each other who have never had children. Some might call adult nursing relationships a sexual perversion, a sexual fetish, or a sexual act, but most couples who share in an adult nursing relationship feel the connection and intimate bond with their nursing partner goes beyond sex and is more intimate and emotional than it is physical.


Adult Nursing Relationships without Sexual Component

Some people have a psychological need to nurture, give sustenance to, or receive comfort and stress relief from entering into an adult nursing relationship, and for these people, an adult nursing relationship might develop without any sexual component. That is to say, the nursing aspect of the relationship is either separate from or not a part of the relationship with the other person. Breastfeeding and adult nursing are not always sexual activities or even foreplay to sexual activities for many adult nursing relationships.

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Adult Breastfeeding without Adult Nursing Relationship

There are some adults who choose to drink breast milk, either for health or immunity issues, who do not physically nurse from a lactating woman. Breast milk is packed with fat, calories, good protein and lots of health immune boosting properties. For someone who is ill, immuno-compromised, or at an unhealthy low weight, adult breastfeeding is an easy on the system way to add pounds and boost immunity.

More about Adult Nursing Relationships and Adult Breastfeeding

Finding information about adult breastfeeding and adult nursing relationships on the internet was difficult at best. The majority of the results I found were based on pornography and sexuality, but the few relevant links I did find made it clear that the majority of adult nursing relationships are not sexual in natural–or at least, they are not exclusively sexual.

It seems there’s a clear intimate bonding experience that occurs during adult nursing that is pleasurable to both parties on a physical, emotional and psychological basis. While I realize there are many who will think an adult nursing relationship is strange, and I’ll admit that was my instinctive reaction too, the more I thought about adult nursing relationships, the more this type of intimate relationship made sense to me.


We all have things we enjoy, both sexually and intimately–having someone stroke our hair, scratch our backs, rub our feet–while other people might not enjoy those same things. I see adult nursing relationships to be very similar to those types of intimate things–it might not be for everyone, but I see nothing wrong or strange about those who enjoy this type of relationship.

19 thoughts on “What is Adult Breastfeeding?”

  1. I’m a 68 year old male. I have had a psycho-emotional need to be “nursed” my entire life (when I would, rarely, admit it ONLY to myself). I understand why and how this situation developed. However, no amount of thought, nor very limited information has been able to help. Then, there is the public shaming, plus my own worries about possible improprieties, and for me, the most troubling is the fear that I may become aroused. I know and believe, that my “desire” stems from unmet needs at infancy, an intensely negative “upbringing” and strict, cold, misguided Catholic dogma.These, I know, but I am still left with a tremendous void.
    Also, from what I have very recently discovered (including the actual existence.of ABF, that I was NOT the only person on the planet with these thoughts, etc.) that there is a substantial quid pro qou for services rendered implied and/or sometimes actually stated. I am struggling financially. My guess is that I am not a viable candidate for this. If a woman with experience could just contact me for purposes of a better understanding of this and clarification of my concerns, I would be truly grateful. Thank you.

    1. I’m lacating and its wounded full feeling to breastfeed another adult I have breastfeeding a friend for over 2 years she has never tasted breast milk so I stimulated myself and I breast feed her

  2. Greetings Ladies!

    I am looking to connect with a woman who shares my desire for the closeness, intimacy and pure pleasure that an ANR brings. I would love to feed from your full milky breasts if you are currently lactating, or dry suckle you either to help bring in your milk, or as an end in itself, since that can also bring as much pleasure and fulfillment as suckling from lactating tits.

    I prefer women who are bright, charming, upbeat, height-weight proportional (but I won’t complain if you’re non-proportionally busty!). A woman who is romantic, sexy and a hot kisser! She has a good sense of humor, able to laugh at herself, doesn’t get wound up over small stuff.

    I’m a fit Caucasian male, single, 63 years young, D/D free, clean, caring, respectful. I live and work in north San Diego county as a computer professional.

    If this appeals to you, contact me either via email at t4t@mailforce.net or text me at 619-840-1646. I look forward to latching on to you soon!

  3. Hello Ladies,

    I’m a 5’9″ 165 lb adult male asking if there’s a Caucasian woman in SW Wisconsin interested in initiating an ANR/ABF relationship. I/we would be together for as long you would like to continue. It would be a real plus if customary sexual contact would be part of our ANR. I have wonderful gentle latching technique for relief and satisfaction. Ryrlabiatasty@gmail dot com Please put abf4u or LMH in the subject line.
    Also on kik: TARS2014
    Thank you for considering me as your partner


  4. Hello
    I’m a 50 yr old male from England. I’ve had some experience in the past of adult nursing, and enjoyed a relationship for a while with no sex involved.
    Obviously this is a very rare thing in this world it I’d dearly love to meet with someone again to see if we could bond and rekindle my past love of suckling.
    Is there anyone in England who is seeking a male to fulfil their needs too ?


    1. hey Robert are you still looking for someone? if you are where in uk are you? are you looking for another anr with or without sex or just start without and see where it goes? hope to hear from you soon.

  5. I am looking for some lady to breastfeed me and make a beautiful bond between us.
    If there is any woman from Dubai pls reply me.

  6. I was thrilled to learn that this site really existed. I decided to join in the hope of corresponding with a woman of like mind that lives in Tampa Bay, Florida..
    I am seeking an open minded woman that shares a interest in adult breastfeeding that would entertain the prospect for a long term relationship where anr/abf is incorporated into the relationship as a whole..

  7. Greetings Lovely Ladies!
    I would be so privileged to help you in your quest to become fully lactating, or if already milky, to share long sensuous suckling sessions to maintain your supply and relieve your engorgement. Or if you simply want to enjoy wonderful erotic dry suckling, my lips wrapped around your swollen sensitive areolas while my tongue teases your excited hard nipples, that would be great as well! I’m a very fit, passionate attentive SWM living in SoCal. Feel free to email me at t4t@mailforce.net, or text to 619-840-1646. Let’s share this adventure together!

  8. I am seeking a lady preferablly to chat with about anything and everything from Indianapolis indiana area. I truly would love to chat with a lady that loves the idea of laying back and allowing someone to please her only.. I love the idea of softly teasing and sucking a ladys nipples for hours.. while sucking softly massage and flick her nipple with my tongue.. Maybe even using my fingers deep inside to massage her gspot while sucking her nipple or not.. I am 6-1 193 black hair blue eyes. I wear buddy holly type glasses and have been described as artsy.. I hope this sparks your curiousity.. i am on kik sailorjerry1926

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